Fostering Love and Connection:

Embracing Neurodiversity in Families

The Gentle Stretch Zone: Safety, Scaffolding, and Self-Directed Learning Sep 02, 2025

Connection, Co-Regulation, and Gentle Scaffolding for Neurodivergent Families

There’s a common misconception that self-directed learning—or unschooling—means children are left entirely on their own t...

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When Parenting Growth Feels Unfair: A PDA-Informed Look at Sibling Dynamics May 22, 2025

"You're letting her get away with everything! It's not fair!"

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Honouring Growth Without Ignoring the Grief

Ā If you're a parent who has evolved your approach over the years—moving from more tradi...

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šŸ’« Supporting Positive Autistic-PDA & Neurodivergent Identity in Younger Children May 21, 2025
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🌱 Nurturing Self-Understanding Through Invitation
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1. Celebrate Neurological Diversity
"All minds have their unique pathways. Your brain's way of being is a natural variation - not something to...
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Getting Started with Declarative Language: A Gentle Invitation Mar 13, 2025

Stepping into declarative language isn’t about getting it ā€œright.ā€ It’s about exploring a different way of communicating—one that feels more connected, more collaborative, and more focused on regulati...

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🌿 Navigating Othering and Policing Within my Local Neurodivergent Communities: A Reflection Mar 08, 2025

I'd like to start with a poem that a beautiful ND colleague shared with me:

"Together we will create brave space.
Because there is no such thing as a ā€˜safe space’—
We exist in the real world.
We all ...

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A Different Kind of Play Therapy Moment: Co-Regulation in Action Mar 08, 2025

šŸ’” The Main Takeaways (if you only have a moment right now!)

🌿 Recognizing your own nervous system state creates space for deeper attunement to the child’s needs, allowing you to offer genuine felt-sa...

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Why Pushing Through Demand Avoidance is Harmful for PDAers: A Guide for Play Therapists Mar 08, 2025

šŸ’” The Main TakeawaysšŸ’”

(if you only have a moment right now!)

  • ✨ Shifting from power-over to power-with creates a more equitable therapeutic space where PDAers can access more felt-safety and connec...
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When School Flexibility Isn’t Really Flexible: Supporting Your Autistic Child Without the Boom-and-Bust Cycle Mar 06, 2025

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If you’re navigating the complexities of school, burnout, and autonomy with your autistic child, youth, or young adult, you’re not alone. Many parents find themselves in the impossible position of ...

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A Winter Holiday Guide: Thoughtful Support for Neurodivergent Families Dec 17, 2024

A Winter Holiday Guide:

Thoughtful Support for Neurodivergent Families


The holidays are full of potential for connection, joy, and, let’s face it, some chaos. For families with neurodivergent (ND...

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Winter Holiday Survival Guide: Tips for Parents of Neurodivergent Children Dec 11, 2024

Winter Holiday Survival Guide: Tips for Parents of Neurodivergent Children

Created by Stacy @ stacyfinch.com & Adrianne @ discoverautism.caĀ 

The winter holidays are a time of warmth, wonder—and, let...

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Assessing Kindergarten Readiness for Children with a PDA Profile Oct 31, 2024

For children with a Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) profile, deciding whether to begin kindergarten involves looking beyond traditional readiness markers. PDAers may follow unique developmental pa...

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From Confusion to Clarity: The Hidden World of Interoception and Sensory Processing Aug 27, 2024

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Do you ever feel like understanding behaviour can be elusive and challenging? When we don't consider the roles of interoception and sensory processing, we often find ourselves playing a game of "be...

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